A biblical guide to overcome the #1 cause of “inhibited” sexless marriages:
Failure to leave the parents and grow up.
Your Family of Origin Determines if You Have an “Inhibited” Sexless Marriage
Patsy Rae Dawson’s Sexless Marriages Survey shows that the #1 cause of inhibited sexless marriages begins with a defective family of origin. Add to that the adult child’s failure to leave the parents and grow up into love, and you have the makings of an “inhibited” sexless marriage.
Unfortunately, if the adult child doesn’t learn how to love, then bitterness, anger, and blaming will fill the vacuum. Everyone in the family will be harmed.
God Said, “Leave Your Parents” 5 Times
God instructs inhibited spouses to leave their parents and grow up into one-flesh intimacy with their mates.Leaving ordained at creation (Genesis 2:23-24)Leave intellectually (Matthew 19:4-5)Leave emotionally (Ephesians 5:31-33)Leave sexually (1 Corinthians 6:16)Leave spiritually (Mark 10:6-9)
God Never Tells Children to Love Their Parents
God gives children three responsibilities to their parents. Loving them isn’t one of them. Children are to:Learn from their parents. They are the first teachers about love and sexuality.Obey with personal responsibility. God’s laws always override the parents’ dictates.Honor their parents. Includes respect for the office and old-age assistance. “Honor” does not imply “love.” When natural love exists between the parents and children, it blesses everyone.
The Better Lover You Are—The Better Parent You’ll Be
Everyone in the family is harmed when a sexually inhibited spouse refuses to grow up from a flawed family of origin and become loving. The children carry emotional scars for a lifetime. Some become:AtheistsNarcissistsPassive aggressorsScreaming parentsEnablersMarries an enabler or narcissist
INHIBITED SPOUSES want to know:What should my attitude be toward an evil parent?Must I love my parents if they didn’t love me?If my parents didn’t model healthy love, what can I do?
DEPRIVED MATES want to know:What happens when my spouse refuses to grow up into love?How can I protect my children from an unloving spouse?
Three Reasons God Wants You to Love Passionate SexFrequent lovemaking turns you into a better parent.Passionate lovemaking helps you earn a living.Ecstatic lovemaking helps you glorify God.
Includes Patsy’s Story and MissionWhen the Manure of Life Catches FireMy Mission Began in a House of MourningA Wonderful Gift From a Dead SonA Voice From the Past Illuminates the PresentThank God for Attention Deficit Disorder
Checklists for Analyzing Your Family of Origin
Patsy’s Sexless Marriages Survey checklists are based on scripturesChecklist 1: Your ParentsChecklist 2: Your Companion’s ParentsChecklist 3: Your Children’s Survival SkillsChecklist 4: Your Narcissism and Passive Aggressiveness
Patsy Rae Dawson is an international expert on the Song of Solomon and God’s creation of passionate lovemaking. She combines scientific, psychological, and survey results to show the timeliness of the scriptures. Since 1972, she’s taught men and women the secret of their attitudes for liberating their bodies for uninhibited pleasure since 1972.
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Find a Biblical Guide to Overcome the #1 Cause of Inhibited Sexless Marriages: Failure to Leave and Grow Up.
Your love life will never be the same!
