As Others See Us: Essays – Contradictory Perceptions About Love, Philosophy, Spirituality, Motivation … and Life in General Book

Truth be told, by thousands of years the human being pays a lot of attention to what we call … the mouth of the world.Today … we politely say that … yes … is indeed important as others sees us.The garbage man is interested about that.The cleaning lady.But also … the president or the king of the country.Somehow, for a weird reason, difficult to be defined, are extremely important for us all those perceptions, even if we can’t clearly understand why.Unfortunately, soon after … the influences of all those opinions change the dynamic of all.Yes.The way we act.The way we dress.The way we speak.The way we react in front of anything.All.Losing … authenticity.That ability of being the true self.And … it happened to me too.Many times.10 years ago.1 year ago.Last week.Yesterday…. even today.But … i’ve came into a point when i’m tired of listening to them.So … i ignore anything they might think or say.Even … if some of them have good intentions…. somehow trying to be motivational.Fortunately, i feel and clearly know it, that i must ignore all of them.Cause there are too many.And … actually too many contradictory opinions.All being unclear.I am a good person, an extremely bad one, a horrible character, a person obsessed of manipulating all around, or a human illusory believing that can save the world etc etc.I can only smile.The truth is that … personally i don’t know who i am, even if I’ve spent so many years into my company.But this charade of perceptions continues.Annoying me.Or even making me sad.Until is obvious that i can live without them.So … i disconnect.I am on the stage of life, but i am in there more as a ghost.I feel like that … better.Today i look into their eyes and i smile.Probably, having enough of hearing all those craps, even if indeed many things which they are saying are true … realising everything is just a perception … i become detached.Feeling better.And even if i don’t have the guts to express myself … i start to realise the importance of authenticity.So … my whole focus change … being a lot related with my inner world.Which I believe is good.At least for myself.