Yes After Yes: a Healing Journey From Performance-based Faith to Trust-fueled Obedience

What if obedience wasn’t pressure—but peace?If you’ve ever flinched at the word obedience because it felt more like performance than intimacy, you’re not alone. In Yes After Yes, trauma-informed educator, worship leader, and emerging theologian Kay Ashley invites you to rediscover obedience as a healing rhythm—not a fear-based demand.This book is for the woman who wants to trust God… but still feels a tangle of anxiety when He asks for a yes. Whether you’ve been hurt by church culture, trained to strive for spiritual approval, or just scared of getting it wrong, this book walks with you—one safe step at a time.Inside, you’ll learn how to:Break free from religious pressure and perfectionismUnderstand how trauma, fear, and overthinking block obedienceRewire your responses through “micro obedience” and consistent trustRecover from delayed obedience or spiritual burnoutEmbrace God’s invitation to peace—not performanceWith grace-drenched wisdom, brain-based discipleship insights, biblical teaching, and honest storytelling, Yes After Yes is not a rulebook. It’s a rhythm. A healing journey for those who want to follow God without faking brave.You don’t have to be fearless.You don’t need to have it all figured out.You just need to say yes—again. And again.